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Annie Gottlieb's avatar

You left something vital out.

For an infant, attention and gaze are what water and sunlight are to a plant. If at the beginning of life a parent's eyes are hidden and attention is diverted into a machine, what does that teach a child? That only machines are valuable and worthy of attention. That I should form my attachments to and seek my fulfillment through machines, which I can control, not unreliable humans. The parent's behavior is both modeling these priorities and modeling the child's neurology to know no alternative. Starving the child of its birthright as a creature from the get-go.

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Philip Jamieson's avatar

Excellent essay, thank you so much. That old quote from Pascal comes to mind regarding why we are so prone to distractions, "The eternal silence of these infinite spaces frightens me." Having lost our ability to hear (to be present to God and one another) we must find other ways to soothe our worried souls.

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